Tomorrow, I've decided to celebrate my mother's birthday by decluttering. I wasn't in a state to plan any part of her celebration of life, but I'd like to celebrate her life by letting go of the person I knew myself to be. This is also the best way to close out my Shaping Your World Through Change blog Series and move on to the next phase of helping others through change.
I've never been one for fanfare, so I don't need all of the red carpet, press releases, getting dressed up…all of that takes so much time from living. I love to celebrate things but in a peaceful way. That doesn't necessarily mean quiet because there is peace in dancing, as if no one is watching you. I want to celebrate it with people who have a good time, laugh…, and maybe cry. I like to celebrate with people I may not know. I am willing to weave our way through small talk, past noticeable differences, past cultural differences, and past conversations that divide us, and onward to the connections that make changes happen. I want to celebrate with people who want to share their stories and how they are helping others share their stories.
I want to see communities connected with other communities to build safer spaces and learn from each other. I want to create a safe space for people to say enough is enough. People spend too much time making videos about change and all the editing that goes into it rather than creating and connecting with others. I think people are so tired and want to live.
This is my last blog post in this series, Shaping Your World Through Change, and I'm strategically posting this one today. If you haven't seen my video from the other day, please watch it now:
I was so inspired by how people came to this woman's aide, and it came at just the right time. You never know when someone needs support, and I am opening up my day to those who want something different in their lives, who are afraid of the unknown component that has to be explored to move forward, and who are bold enough to take action to start making it happen.
Tomorrow will be a day of decluttering because it clears space for the changes you want to make. So, I'm looking for a few people who want to declutter something. In one of my recent posts, we discussed decluttering their fear of failure, perfectionism, procrastination, etc. Tomorrow is a day of letting all of that go. Especially if you are releasing a creative project, starting a business, trying to get fit, changing your diet, improving your relationship quality, or building whatever you want to develop. If you want to create change in your life, you have to let go of something. The change begins with you.
If you have time, we can go live together and catch up on life, and I want you to tell me the following:
Tell me What you want to declutter in your life
Tell me what actions you will take to get there
Tell me the timeframe as to when you think you will finish
We can catch up after that. Purpose up front. A kiki and good times after.
I plan to free myself of the constraints I place on myself. Tomorrow, I will leave behind limiting ideas surrounding masculinity and femininity and live fully in both aspects of my personhood. Tomorrow, I will create space for those who need to get free of whatever is holding them back from being who they indeed are. Introduce me and others to the experience of your complete self.
For those looking for significant changes, there will be an option to do a full-on Live Life Coaching Session with me. We can meditate, participate in Reiki, Pray (upon request), and clarify your next steps. If you need professional, mental, or additional help outside of my purview, I will contact those around me directly, depending on your situation. Tomorrow, EVERYONE is getting free.
Tomorrow evening, I will also go live with my Partner, Alfred, to discuss what we've learned by accepting changes quickly and what it has taught us about love. We will be open to creating a space for people from diverse backgrounds who are willing to take action to become their most beautiful selves. Text, call, email, or DM me if you want to meet him and say hi, or just reach out to us in the comments if you catch us live.
The Life Organization I'm going with, Amaris Vitae, is no longer a side hustle or a casual profession. It is a way of being that gives me life daily. When you declutter with me tomorrow and beyond, I will stand with you to realize the changes you want in your life. For those looking for things like cars or traditional luxury items…those things are great, but we are changing our worlds, meaning we are looking for long-term success and not short-term gratification. Nothing is wrong with wanting stuff like this, but this is not that kind of party.
Listen to the meditation below to prepare for your changes:
Thank you so much to everyone who supported me throughout this process. I'm excited to see all of your changes take shape.
Dream Big. Organize Well. Love Often.
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